When you read about manifestation, you will often hear that it requires your thoughts and feelings to be together to manifest what you want. In other words, the male and female within you must be in harmony. Of course, the degree to which your thoughts and feelings are in harmony determines the quality or level of your manifestation or your outer relationships. So, if you are at peace with your inner opposite, it is much more likely that the relationships in your life will be harmonious.
Marriage is a perfect schoolroom for determining how well you're doing at blending your thoughts and feelings. If you have difficulty in relationships, you should look within before you lay the blame at the feet of your partner. The greatest gift marriage affords you is to give you an in-your-face opportunity to examine your own life. How you treat your partner is simply a reflection of the respect and understanding you have for your inner opposite. Isn't it wonderful that life acts like a mirror for the relationship you have with your inner opposite?